I think one of my girl friends likes the same guy I like. We hung out with him the other night at a party and he seemed to be giving me way more signs of interest than her (touching my butt, resting his hand on my lower back when I would stand next to him, putting his arm around me, inviting me to come lay with him and watch a movie, inviting me to play him in singles flip-cup, etc) So far I have held off doing anything with him because I do not want to be one of those girls who chooses guys over her best friends. But yesterday I asked for his number and he gave it to me. First of all, does it sound like this guy is interested in me. Second, if he is what do I do about my friend?
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First of all: I would guess that they guy is interested in you!
Second: You make your own decision...but I'll tell you what me and the girls used to do back when we were in high school (actually, we still have the same attitude): unless the fella in question is so absolutely loved by one of us and an undeniable connection has developed, if my girlfriends and I "crush" after the same guy-we drop it. We always stuck together. I'll add that 10+ years later, I still have those valuable and irreplaceable friendships with my girlfriends and all those boys have come and gone.
Best thing to do is talk to your friend honestly about it. I wouldn't go forward with the guy if it would hurt her (even slightly) because it isn't worth it. Then again, she might not really care or she might be able to accept that you and him make a cute couple.