Ok, well I texted this girl that was sick, a I asked her how she was feeling, but she never answered. Now she has done these things many times before, I'd ask her something, for example: ask about her scholarship stuff, what she got on her test on sh*t, and sometimes she'll answer me, but she's purposely trying to ruin the convo. I am trying to be nice guy and just trying to talk to her, be she's being rude about this and not answering me very often, and it's at a point where it's a guessing game if she's gonna answer or not, and it's starting to get on my nerves.
In person, she seems like she wants to talk to me, she looks at me from a far, but when I just ask a simple innocent question, she gives the shortest answers possible.
So I'm wondering, I would really love to get to know this girl, we have a lot of the same interest, and we have similar personnalities (regarless of her talking stuff). Is it wrong for me to feel a little upset with her or am I over reacting? And, if I want to be able to start having texting convos with her, should concentrate more the in person rather than via text message?
Plus, since she's in a way shy or uncomfortable around me in person, what can I do to make her be herself and feel confortable. And one last thing, is this a type of crush she has on me or those she have problems?
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Let me say this: the girl is not worth your time and care. If she cannot at least tell you what is wrong, then she's hiding something very ugly. I will tell you from my experiences: if a girl gives you short texts or doesn't answer, then either:
a. she has a problem and doesn't want to tell you
b. she's seeing someone else or talking to someone else
c. she's an outright b*tch
or, d. all of the above
You do have a right to be angry, but I personally think that there's a better girl out there for you. Because if you stay with this girl, then you're only asking for more trouble and questions that will never be answered.0