With girls that like you, they usually like it... I can see how some might be embarrassed in public...
True story, I was at a bar in Brooklyn and I met this really hot girl there... bought her a drink etc., but I think after a while I got pretty drunk cause there was also a pretty good band and I guess we were having a good time... I was staying at a friend's place that night so I never had plans to bring a girl with me so all I remember was leaving...
It get a FB message from this girl (never gave her or got my number or message) who had basically stalked me through a mutual acquaintance at the bar and I was shocked and embarrassed about what I read. She told me she was so turned on when I grabbed her ass... Something I completely had no recollection of... I felt like such an asshole because it's not something I would do to a girl I just met, but she said she loved it...
So there ya go... some girls like it so much they will stalk you through facebook :D
Okay I just read all the girl posts... I can't believe what they're saying. Turn on when no one is around... But yet when ever I tried it with the 2 girls I've ever kissed they pretty much lambasted me.
I'm not sure about now 18-21yrs old was the time period... I'm 26 years old now.
You probably went for her butt too fast and so they caused her to react badly to it or your grabbed it too hard lol
Nope, slow gradual hand caress pulling the girl inward for a passionate kiss.
Wow, got no idea then man. I mean you can see from the answers how many girls really like ass grabbing. Unfortunately it looks like you just found 2 girls who just happen to not like it.
love it! Especially if you use it to pull me closer or grind against me. OMGosh how I like that. I like getting randomIy tapped on my butt or rubbed or a lingering touch or sometimes when I'm hugged and the bae's go to the top of my butt and rest his hands there. I don't know why but that's a turn on. I like it even when it's a bad time. I would dislike you doing that at church or in front of my dad or any family that isn't around my age or a sister or cousin or something (a couple of my nieces are closer to my age than my cousins and siblings). I'd still be flattered that you want to touch my booty and it may still be a turn on, but I'd be upset because you'd be being disrespectful to me, my family, church and church family. PS those aren't the only circumstances just what's on my mind. Ps PS. I don't think touching like this is bad unless it will lead to sexual behavior that will pull you away from God or it is pulling you away from God, but I may be wrong. 😊💖
Lots of factors play Into this.
Is he my boyfriend? If not I will question his intentions. He could just want sex
I do not like that kind of thing in public. It's just weird. It's too much PDA and I'm not into that.
Even if the guy was my boyfriend, I won't mind if he grabs it. I like it when guys grab my butt and lift me up so I can wrap my legs around them while he kisses me. I do like that.
But if I'm just kissing my boyfriend and his hands grab my butt it doesn't do much for me.
I get really turned on if he cups my chin and kisses me sweetly or if he puts his arms around my waist and pulls me into him and kisses me. Personally things like that do much more than butt grabbing itself.
I don't have much of a butt because I'm pretty skinny lol so maybe that's why.
If he's not my man, I'll move his hand A.S.A.P.
I can't count the number of times I've had guys try this while we were kissing! If I had a new pair of shoes for every time a guy did that! I'd be one happy girl! :)
I don't like it. I feel like the only guy who gets dips on ass grabbing and other things with me will be my boyfriend. He will have earned the title. Not just any guy gets access to my goodies, including ass grabbing. I'm a sucker for a respectful, kinky guy. A guy who has an inner freaky side yet is so respectful and reluctant to let it out in consideration for my feelings and for his cheek that might get smacked. Something sweet and tender like gently massaging the back of my head or rubbing my kneecap would be waaaaay more of a turn on than an ass grab.
Interesting, you're like the only girl from the answers who doesn't really like ass grabbing.
Well I have this thing where I'm kinda used to guys looking at me like a piece of meat and it pisses me off. So when guys do things like ass grabbing, or looking me up and down a certain way (there's a certain way you can look a female up and down that is just kinda nasty, may make her feel uncomfortable otherwise known as eye f*cking), it ignites something in me. I don't like it. That's just not the type of male attention I desire and it just seems inappropriate if the guy isn't my boyfriend.
Because I know for a fact, based on experience, that some guys will see how far they can go. "Oh she'll let me put my hands all over her ass, what else will she let me do? " So that's another reason why I don't like it. I feel like it could possibly give him the wrong idea.
I like it. If we have enough chemistry that I want to and enjoy kissing you and letting things heat up a little [or a lot, lol], then I definitely don't mind you touching my ass like that as it's happening. I don't mind when my guy touches my ass, period, as long as it's situationally appropriate. Like not just slapping it or groping it in public or in front of anyone who isn't a close friend who wouldn't be weirded out by witnessing that kind of thing on a random occasion. A little caress in passing or a lingering touch though is acceptable to me in most situations, except maybe around my grandparents or his parents, because they're more conservative and I'd find it impolite to expose them to that kind of touching.
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I like it and I grab his too! heehee!!
turn on :D
:D my cute German friend haha
that's what I think my handsome British friend :D
And that's what you'll get when you come and visit me! ;D
If I am in a good-quality lip-lock with a guy, I don't mind his hand finding it's way to my butt. That said, I don't like random ass-grabs that some guys try to do. Getting "touched" in certain places is part of making out, not part of walking through the grocery store together, if that makes any sense.
Yes definitely, grab or smack. A guy once grabbed my ass and lifted me up...loved it :).
Yeah I like it. It's like a "I want all of you! Come here!"
Generally, I used to be caressed - he'd have his hands on my waist and during the kiss he would explore my body with his hands. It was nice :)
I like the t*ts better.
I dumped a guy for doing that to me in public.
turns me on so much!!! keep doing it
It's a sign of affection. I love it, it turns me a lot..
there are much better, more sweeter ways to be affectionate yet you'd rather have ass grabbing?
Sure, there is other ways. That's one of them. I like it..
maybe you view it as affection but in reality, the guy just wants to feel on your ass and feel what he's working with lol
Turn on :D
F*** yes, makes me feel like I might actually have a nice ass.
hate it , unless we are alone its fine , but in public , keep the hand s on the waist and back. I ve had guys do it and it distracts me , I usually grab their hand and place it on my neck ( which is actually more of a turn on ) awh but the hands always wander :/
Yeah I wouldn't do it in public either. I know when my girl wants to be discreet I only do it when we are alone :)
i love it. huge turn on.
If it is the guy I am seeing, it is a turn on.
roflmfao at your profile pic! I love the hairy, sweaty guy behind him and everyone else around him with their hilarious, pained running faces and he's just all chill and happy
yep, that would be hugh jackman, its actually a pic from when he was at the beach. ahaaa
turn on!
totally a turn on :-)
I have had some girls I have dated actually call me out on grabbing their butt when we kissed. They say, "Hey, I REALLY liked it when you grabbed my but. It was so fuckin hot." Each time I've done it we had sex the next date.
I think the way to do it is to grab both butt cheeks to bring her closer to you. there's a loving intention while kissing when you do that. She gets so horny. Byt dont do it just to grab it as a piece of meat. And dont do it too often. But for in that moment pulling her irresistibly closer really makes a girl wet. BIG TIME. Just when you do it press her against your pelvis.
<3 turn on..
Omg yes. Huge turn on. Just don't do it in public.
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