Girls, do you like it when a guy grabs your ass while kissing?

I usually do it when I'm kissing a girl but I've never had a girl tell me not to do it or anything. I'm just wondering, is it kind of a turn on or doesn't it bother you at all?

Girls, do you like it when a guy grabs your ass while kissing?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • I like it. If we have enough chemistry that I want to and enjoy kissing you and letting things heat up a little [or a lot, lol], then I definitely don't mind you touching my ass like that as it's happening. I don't mind when my guy touches my ass, period, as long as it's situationally appropriate. Like not just slapping it or groping it in public or in front of anyone who isn't a close friend who wouldn't be weirded out by witnessing that kind of thing on a random occasion. A little caress in passing or a lingering touch though is acceptable to me in most situations, except maybe around my grandparents or his parents, because they're more conservative and I'd find it impolite to expose them to that kind of touching.

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  • With girls that like you, they usually like it... I can see how some might be embarrassed in public...

    True story, I was at a bar in Brooklyn and I met this really hot girl there... bought her a drink etc., but I think after a while I got pretty drunk cause there was also a pretty good band and I guess we were having a good time... I was staying at a friend's place that night so I never had plans to bring a girl with me so all I remember was leaving...

    It get a FB message from this girl (never gave her or got my number or message) who had basically stalked me through a mutual acquaintance at the bar and I was shocked and embarrassed about what I read. She told me she was so turned on when I grabbed her ass... Something I completely had no recollection of... I felt like such an asshole because it's not something I would do to a girl I just met, but she said she loved it...

    So there ya go... some girls like it so much they will stalk you through facebook :D

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What Girls Said 35

  • If he's not my man, I'll move his hand A.S.A.P.

    I can't count the number of times I've had guys try this while we were kissing! If I had a new pair of shoes for every time a guy did that! I'd be one happy girl! :)

    I don't like it. I feel like the only guy who gets dips on ass grabbing and other things with me will be my boyfriend. He will have earned the title. Not just any guy gets access to my goodies, including ass grabbing. I'm a sucker for a respectful, kinky guy. A guy who has an inner freaky side yet is so respectful and reluctant to let it out in consideration for my feelings and for his cheek that might get smacked. Something sweet and tender like gently massaging the back of my head or rubbing my kneecap would be waaaaay more of a turn on than an ass grab.

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    • Interesting, you're like the only girl from the answers who doesn't really like ass grabbing.

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    • I like the fact you have a lot of self respect for your body and not just letting anyone get touchy. But how do you let anyone get close to you then if you're that off limits?

    • Find different ways to get close :) You don't have to get close to someone by grabbing their ass lol In my experience, avoiding getting physical forces you to expand your ways of getting close. When kissing, cuddling, or making out, I like sweet, tender affection, but I'm just not in favor of stuff like ass and boob grabbing. If he's not my man, he doesn't get access.

      Thanks for the compliment btw

  • If I am in a good-quality lip-lock with a guy, I don't mind his hand finding it's way to my butt. That said, I don't like random ass-grabs that some guys try to do. Getting "touched" in certain places is part of making out, not part of walking through the grocery store together, if that makes any sense.

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  • Yeah I like it. It's like a "I want all of you! Come here!"

    Generally, I used to be caressed - he'd have his hands on my waist and during the kiss he would explore my body with his hands. It was nice :)

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  • hate it , unless we are alone its fine , but in public , keep the hand s on the waist and back. I ve had guys do it and it distracts me , I usually grab their hand and place it on my neck ( which is actually more of a turn on ) awh but the hands always wander :/

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    • Yeah I wouldn't do it in public either. I know when my girl wants to be discreet I only do it when we are alone :)

  • I like it, but some girls don't. At school the other day there was a couple and the guy grabbed the girls ass and she slapped him and walked away. So! Be careful with some girls

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  • Okay I just read all the girl posts... I can't believe what they're saying. Turn on when no one is around... But yet when ever I tried it with the 2 girls I've ever kissed they pretty much lambasted me.

    I'm not sure about now 18-21yrs old was the time period... I'm 26 years old now.

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    • You probably went for her butt too fast and so they caused her to react badly to it or your grabbed it too hard lol

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    • Wow, got no idea then man. I mean you can see from the answers how many girls really like ass grabbing. Unfortunately it looks like you just found 2 girls who just happen to not like it.

    • :( yep.

  • when i'm with my girlfriend i can't help but put my hand on her bum just feels so amazing as we walk. I can also say that when i have my arms round when kissing yeah i place a hand on her bum as i know it makes her feel wanted and loved.

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  • They like it. Just remember a time and a place though. When making out= yes. When talking = no. Don't overkill it.

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  • I love it!
    Wait... Ummm...

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  • I like this.

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