I met this girl through a mutual friend because we both thought each other was cute. I took her to get ice cream on a first date then cooked pasta for her on the second. We kissed at the end of both.
She left her DVDs at my place again. Also said we could hang during the week
I texted her the day after the second and teased her a bit about kissing (not insulting just saying if her food was better than mine if give her a kids). Then I said something about dates. We talked about other stuff too. She didn't directly respond to the date and kiss texts. Still replied though. also talked to her before her bball game
I texted her during the week. Once if she was in class. Once seeing how her basketball game went. No response
Is there a rule or advice for whether or not I should try to hang with her or text her again?
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Well, I dunno. I wouldn't try to date someone who is really busy.
And I like a reply to any message, whether to friends or lovers, first, before I send one back.
Esp. if I sent multiple messages already. I'd just give it a rest till they reply.
im not really into people who don't message me back that's never a good sign. or if they take realllllyy long. I think sometimes its reasonable if people are busy for a week or so, or until the weekend, but I'm not going to be into some guy whos gonna read my msgs and not reply, even if he's 'too busy'. too busy for me is not a good relationship. People make some time for things they love, even if its a short amount of time, replying to texts doesn't really take long.
Sometimes people aren't in the state of mind to reply to some things, and that's a good excuse not to reply, especially guys. yes I do have some friends who are so busy that they sometimes don't reply to something, but I don't consider them close friends. they can be still good friends, but my close friends make an effort to reply ASAP, whether at work or whatever, and they excuse themself if they are busy. They have manners and don't make me wait.0