How many days in a row do I have to call her before she answers?
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Stop calling. She should be up front with you but if you keep calling like this, there may be a reason she feels she can't be honest with you in person, either.
Unless she is deeply manic depressive or in the middle of a huge tragedy or upheaval :
She is not interested. She's not mean/snobby or anything, she may still want to be your friend but, stop calling and wait for her to contact you either by phone or in person.
If you don't already know her personally, like if this was a 'pick up', then move on, please.
"Stalker" is thrown around too much in the current generation ( who post public half-naked photos of themselves all over the place and end a friendship prematurely if you do not text back immediately ?! )
You're sounding like a good old-fashioned "Daddy, this boy won;t leave me a alone" stalker.
Just chill out (:
You made the effort, now stand back and let her parry your thrust ( you're a dude, I'm assuming you know about sword play and boxing).
Of course, if she is deeply manic depressive or in the middle of a huge tragedy or upheaval that is why it's considerate to call anyone once, maybe twice then leave them alone. They may be preoccupied.