Question says it all. Guys can weigh in too. Just wondering how to best grab someone's attention since girls get so many messages a day.
Most Helpful Girl
DEFINITELY not anything along the lines of "hey, what's up?" or "hi." That gives me nothing to go on. I like it when guys message me saying they liked something about me in my profile. Example: "I see you like to draw! I don't mean to brag but I'm a pretty avid doodler myself." Or something.
Also, don't send one or two neat paragraphs telling me all about you. That screams to me, "I worked hard on this and now I'm sending it to every girl I find cute." I like a first message to be personalized. :) Good luck!0