The thing is moast nice guys eather "don't know how" to be a jerk or like me feel it's wrong. even if they know the jerk/asshole get's all the girls.
I've been the nice guy for as long as I rember and I have a lot of friends who are girls but I haven't dated that much and I've noticed the same thing you have.
girls tend to go for the guy that treat's them kinda harsh, rash, rudely. and than complain about it. what is that called a dubble standerd or something.
I can't explain why but my theory is that nice guys generaly can't become an asshole that easly and assholes usually can't become the nice guy, altho they can sometimes pretend they are for a short while... witch might be the reasion girls don't date nice guys because the "nice guy" might be the jerk they'll end up with any way so they go for the asshole guy from the start.
I think most girls go for the jerk type because the reality is there are as just as many "nice" girls as guys. When I say "nice" I mean insecure. Insecure guys are too nice, and can't get women because they're not assertive or confident enough. "Nice" women are too insecure to reject a guy (like you said, most girls always come back even if you treat them badly), because then they wouldn't have a guy in their life. That is the other thing, I think: Women usually assume that because guys approach THEM, they have more power in relationships, so when it seems like a guy doesn't like them or treats them bad, they panic and get even more clingy for fear of losing him.
TRULY confident women (and there are just as few of them as there are TRULY confident guys) usually won't put up with true jerks. A truly confident woman will know exactly what she wants and dump any guy that doesn't measure up or treat them well enough.
i don't think you necessarily have to be an asshole, but I don't think you necessarily have to be a nice guy, I think when it comes to something like this, you should just be who you really truly are; be yourself. throw a few jokes in from time to time, be insightful be willing to help (I mean come on our world is literally being burned by the sun right now, cause of the ozone layer) just be an overall good citizen, and I think people will like you for that, otherwise you come off as some pyscho killer, or some sensitive know it all
True.I agree.I'm a girl,I completely agree.Although I might add,nice guys finish last.
It all has to do with comfort zone.I don't think every guy wants to be a "jerk" or treat their girlfriends like sh*t,some guys just aren't like that.Some people are naturally kind,sweet,loving and boyfriend/husband material,while other guys are "just for fun material"
I think this is common with teenagers & 20 year olds,becomes less common as you get older because most women have other goals set in mind(keep in mind there are always the vulnerable 30 year olds)
But I don't think treating your partner like crap is something to brag about.It isn't an accomplishment nor is it an achievement,it just means you have bad character.
Alot of girls do this,they are generally insecure.They don't realize they deserve better;they deserve more than an abusive boyfriend or boyfriend who cheats and lies(which are all insecurities).But yea
It's not that you're an asshole it's that women want a guy that's not completely predictable and boring. Asshattery falls along with that. There is a fine line however, of being a normal everyday smart ass and then being an asshole. No one wants an asshole but a smart ass can be a spicy thing for a relationship in a sense of minimal boredom. I'm sure looks have something to do with this too as most "nice guys" seem to be the ones that are, shall I say, physically different from other more attractive guys and because of this have low self esteem which in turn makes them want to be the nice guy because they crave a relationship and value it more than a "normal" smartass.
haha its kinda true that girls always fall for the asshole, just because it is more aventurous and unknown, even if they have been with a million asses, they are all different, and they make you feel excited. I guess assholes are what we fall for, and we can't get enough.
it's odd that even I would say that and agre with you, but the ost fun I had was with the guys that ended up being complete assholes, the ones that are nice and all and would be faithful always seem to fall between the cracks and its hard to notice what excitement they have to offer.
so I'm not saying being an asshole attracts us, okaymaybe a little, because of the lack of an adventure, and spontaneousness. the nice guys never say the things you want to hear and they don't go outta their way for you, unless they know for sure that you are theirs.
It's an interesting point, and while I wouldn't be with a girl of your attitude, it goes to show the nice guys out there to quit worrying about what every girls thinks of them. Get out, travel, go places by yourself and with friends. Develop a life. I was a nice guy growing up but did these things in my 20s and became an outgoing guy with an adventurous side, always going interesting places, but I maintained the desire for a relationship. Insecure girls still won't like me, but good ones will.
There you have it, boys - if you want to stand out and seem "aventurous and unknown" in Canada, all you have to do is act like an asshole. People there are so polite, it'll make you a rare exception.
But being an asshole can only get you so far... and maybe that's just my opinion because I have been played so many times I don't even know if a nice guy really does exist.
I'm an asshole to everyone, I make it a hobby of mine to make strangers cry. I've made grown men throw punches at me and women break down emotionally in public.
I believe people should be treated how they act. If you are an idiot you should be treated as such. The problem is most people are idiots and I've spent a life time perfecting the ability to point out people's flaws. I'm not perfect nor are the smartest man in the world, but this isn't about me. This is about the person I'm being an asshole to.
I noticed that woman need validation. They need to please everyone else for some strange reason. I'll make fun of some girl and she'll try to get on my good side. I've even had girl have sex with me to try and get on my good side. I still think poorly of them and most everyone else.
I just laugh at how easy it is to manipulate women.
Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha!! Oh sorry....just realised your not funny. You dick. I'm going to go be all girly and emotional and cry now... boo-friggin-hoo!
As much as I ADORE being treated like shit, I'd have to say that the caring man will win my heart. If you truly do attract women by being an ass hole, than I officially give up on my gender. It baffles me that women enjoy being treated like yesterday's dump that has already been flushed down the toilet.
well those girls deserved whatever they got if they kept coming back.. obviously you must be really hott or just reallin in all the ugly ones.. I think girls want to feel special around the popular jerk, as you get older it will change. . not in a good way .
We want a balance. A guy who is masculine yet caring. We don't want a p*ssy who cries more than we do, and we don't want an asshole who will use us and abuse us (or who won't give a damn about our feelings.)
We want a nice guy...but not one without confidence and masculinity.
See funny thing is with your typical nice guy, confidence and masculinity are two traits that are pretty much non existent. And what is with the feeling talk, do you really think any man in their right mind wants to hear women rant, rave, and cry about their feelings? Nice guys get sucked into that and guys like me plain well just don't care, especially if we aren't dating you.
There isn't JUST nice guys and assholes, there are guys who are inbetween. Just like girls aren't either virgins or whores.
I appreciate your honesty, and I feel horrible for any woman that gets tangled up with you. You know how to avoid all the emotional clingy shit? Tell her from the beginning exactly what you want. If you just want sex, tell her. Believe it or not, a lot of girls are just looking for a good time too. But don't give them BS that would make them believe you wanna date them
Ya emotional crap is easy to avoid, act like your listening, but really you have no idea nor really care what she is saying. I told a girl the other day to shut the hell up cause she was talking to much, she got mad cause I called her a trick. Then she tried to hit me, I then grabbed her pick up and put on my bed, she then called me an asshole, and yet when I kissed her she kissed me back, the more you piss them off the more they like it.
Wow. You really are an asshole. And not the sexy kind either. Good luck with finding a good woman- you'll only have luck with airheaded bimbos (maybe that's a good thing?).
"We want a balance." "We want a nice guy...but not one without confidence and masculinity."
Yeah, a couple of examples come to mind of guys who fit that description. Guys who weren't @$$holes however girls REALLY dug them...
-Cary Grant
-Sean Connery (from the Early 'Bond' movies) [which ironically is the question asker's profile pic]
-And maybe Rudolph Valentino (who was definitly dominant (as seen in "The Shiek" but didn't really come across as an a-hole (watch his film "The Eagle"
It would help if you girls learned how to cry proper tears then. One of my ex's cried only twice the entire time we were together, you know how hard that was for me to comply with? I WATCHED BAMBI FFS. I'm nice, I keep fit and you can carry your own god damn bag, do I pass the test? :D
I'm sorry. But, I have to agree with this guy. I have a college degree, and I am going to graduate school. I am also an asshole. I EVEN TELL WOMEN THAT I AM AN ASSHOLE. When I go out with my friends (girls and guys) and we are at a group table or something, I tell people I am an asshole. I say it at social gatherings. And women still talk to me.
Now, they may think they can change me. Or to them, I may not be such an asshole. But I don't do a lot things and I get women. I don't like to go on dinner dates. I don't go on romantic walks. I don't even like to eat in public. If I go out with them, it is normally for a drink or something, This baffles me. And these women are uneducated women either. Some of these women even have grad degrees.
Therefore, I have come to the conclusion that A LOT not ALL but A LOT of women get what they deserve when they date most guys. They have to know that these guys are jerks before they date them, and they do it anyway.
Finally someone else who gets women thank you my friend. I tell women I am not nice, I am an asshole and they keep coming. Common sense would say don't touch a hot stove you will get burned, but 95% of women do.
Thats a funny quesion...ive never really thought about it but its true that all my boyfriends were jerks or assholes...
i guess you have to find a mixture...maybe try to be an asshole, but nice...
nah, that doesn't make any sense...
be like you always are but when it gets serious be the nice guy...
you are right, the nice guys don't often get too many girlfriends but the jerks always do.
i don't know rly, its the kind of question you can't really answer, I think...
i mean, there are nice guys who get all the girls and there are jerks who never get girls...
i guess some boys have this somehitng girl like...
i dunno...
...sorry...
i ryl dunno...
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Right, instead of saying you get all the girls, next time you go out, anywhere, the next attractive smart women you see who you think will be hard for you to get in about, go up to her, make your moves. Watch as you crash and burn.
Like people have constantly told you, you are an asshole who knows where to find the emotionally damaged/poor self esteem types.
Good for you!
You say girls go for the ass holes, but you've utterly failed to share with us how awesome you are at getting girls yourself. Any twat can sit back and let the damaged emotional little girls come crawling to them, hell that's not being a player that's just making do with what you can get.
Your obviously from a bad upbringing though and you've been emotionally damaged so hope you learn to heal man, terrible thing, envy.
Here we go again saying I only go for emotionally damaged women. New flash all women have issues, call a skinny girl fat and see what happens. I would say 97% of women have some issue, weight, height, looks, intelligence, and the list goes on. I don't make due with what I can get I go for the smart, sweet, nice, and pretty girls, who are family oriented, so pretty much the same girls that every guy goes for. I stay away from the crazy ones and the dumb ones they just p*ss me off.
lol is that right I may end with assholes but I'd never get with some-one that sounded as stuck up as you. not even for a one nighter lol you must get some dumb ass, can't think for themself girls. Love to see you when your old and lonley because you can't get a girl. And the nice guys is off having a jolly old time playing bowls with the love of his life and beautiful grandchildren
Basically you are preying on insecure girls who rely on having a very "self-confident" guy, a challenge, to make her feel like a winner. It's easy to do, to get a girl like that, not much of a prize or anything to be proud of. Just takes a little strategy. Do what you do though, the girls who take you probably deserve you and that's cool in my eyes.
Everyone gets the they deserve, you're right. A shame what Cosmo magazine and TV have done to girls that they become so insecure. If you're a guy who only loves sex, I guess you are the winner. I'm a guy who never got the whole random sex thing, but many do, and I suppose they are as stunted as the girls they hook up with.
yeah but one day she won't put up with it. A girl likes an ass hole over a nice guy because the ass hole has confidence and the nice guy is shy and doesn't come off with that confidence. But I can tell you after a while the girl won't put up with being treated like shit and in the end she will marry the nice guy
You don't have to be shy to be nice. A lot of guys are 'nice' but dull and allow themselves to be used as doormats. I'm pretty loud, I can be pretty arrogant, if I think something I'm gonna say it, a lot of people don't get it and will call you an asshole over it, but that's life for ya. People just need to look past the surface and the stereotypes. It can be surprising.
Actually, believe it or not, there are girls that find guys like you despicable. They can't stand why you are mean, abusive, disprespectful, and they are usually the ones who are much smarter than other girls, know how to be treated by guys and throw away the ones who aren't nice within minutes. I've had several girlfrineds like that.
When you die lonely you can write on your gravestone "I was a jerk''
Jerks win in the teens period but when a women wants a serious relationship which involves a future & a family and years of priceless love. The "nice" guy wins. And the jerks watch on with the 40year old balding heads and there bright yellow veichiles still considering themselves to be a teen when they clearly are not and the girls they get decrease and decrease in prettyness.
Well if that were true, why is that I'm the one who isn't a virgin, and has a gf, who isn't a teenager? You see more than likely I will be the one married in a few years, I will be the one with kids if I choose and, you will be the one who will still be single, possibly a virgin, and just can't figure out how to get laid or get a gf.
My opinion? You still need some growing up to do. You claim you still get women, but I happen to think they are just naive younger girls who don't know any better. College degree or not, your still a bad egg.
Nice bit on the nice guys though, I actually agree with that rant.
I've dated women from ages 18-36, braniacs to bimbos, and well what can I say, it doesn't matter the age or the education they simply go for the jerks.
First of all, these "Nice" guys are never as nice as they make out! And secondly only desperados and pathetic little girls put up with jerks, so you'll probably never fall in love because you only go for the needy and desperate. Sex is easy to get these days, get over yourself.
Just one of those things, where we lived together just kind of got tired of each other and decided to see other people. She wasn't needy or desperate or dumb she's in law school right now
Ya I consider myself a nice guy but I'm not as I appear. Its very true,the young,dumb,desperate,very low confidence girls like to be treated badly because they think that's what they deserve,they wouldn't be comfortable being treated good because they think they don't deserve respect. All girls deserve respect from their other.
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The thing is moast nice guys eather "don't know how" to be a jerk or like me feel it's wrong. even if they know the jerk/asshole get's all the girls.
I've been the nice guy for as long as I rember and I have a lot of friends who are girls but I haven't dated that much and I've noticed the same thing you have.
girls tend to go for the guy that treat's them kinda harsh, rash, rudely. and than complain about it. what is that called a dubble standerd or something.
I can't explain why but my theory is that nice guys generaly can't become an asshole that easly and assholes usually can't become the nice guy, altho they can sometimes pretend they are for a short while... witch might be the reasion girls don't date nice guys because the "nice guy" might be the jerk they'll end up with any way so they go for the asshole guy from the start.
I think most girls go for the jerk type because the reality is there are as just as many "nice" girls as guys. When I say "nice" I mean insecure. Insecure guys are too nice, and can't get women because they're not assertive or confident enough. "Nice" women are too insecure to reject a guy (like you said, most girls always come back even if you treat them badly), because then they wouldn't have a guy in their life. That is the other thing, I think: Women usually assume that because guys approach THEM, they have more power in relationships, so when it seems like a guy doesn't like them or treats them bad, they panic and get even more clingy for fear of losing him.
TRULY confident women (and there are just as few of them as there are TRULY confident guys) usually won't put up with true jerks. A truly confident woman will know exactly what she wants and dump any guy that doesn't measure up or treat them well enough.
i don't think you necessarily have to be an asshole, but I don't think you necessarily have to be a nice guy, I think when it comes to something like this, you should just be who you really truly are; be yourself. throw a few jokes in from time to time, be insightful be willing to help (I mean come on our world is literally being burned by the sun right now, cause of the ozone layer) just be an overall good citizen, and I think people will like you for that, otherwise you come off as some pyscho killer, or some sensitive know it all
am I right, or am I right, haha
True.I agree.I'm a girl,I completely agree.Although I might add,nice guys finish last.
It all has to do with comfort zone.I don't think every guy wants to be a "jerk" or treat their girlfriends like sh*t,some guys just aren't like that.Some people are naturally kind,sweet,loving and boyfriend/husband material,while other guys are "just for fun material"
I think this is common with teenagers & 20 year olds,becomes less common as you get older because most women have other goals set in mind(keep in mind there are always the vulnerable 30 year olds)
But I don't think treating your partner like crap is something to brag about.It isn't an accomplishment nor is it an achievement,it just means you have bad character.
Alot of girls do this,they are generally insecure.They don't realize they deserve better;they deserve more than an abusive boyfriend or boyfriend who cheats and lies(which are all insecurities).But yea
It's not that you're an asshole it's that women want a guy that's not completely predictable and boring. Asshattery falls along with that. There is a fine line however, of being a normal everyday smart ass and then being an asshole. No one wants an asshole but a smart ass can be a spicy thing for a relationship in a sense of minimal boredom. I'm sure looks have something to do with this too as most "nice guys" seem to be the ones that are, shall I say, physically different from other more attractive guys and because of this have low self esteem which in turn makes them want to be the nice guy because they crave a relationship and value it more than a "normal" smartass.
haha its kinda true that girls always fall for the asshole, just because it is more aventurous and unknown, even if they have been with a million asses, they are all different, and they make you feel excited. I guess assholes are what we fall for, and we can't get enough.
it's odd that even I would say that and agre with you, but the ost fun I had was with the guys that ended up being complete assholes, the ones that are nice and all and would be faithful always seem to fall between the cracks and its hard to notice what excitement they have to offer.
so I'm not saying being an asshole attracts us, okaymaybe a little, because of the lack of an adventure, and spontaneousness. the nice guys never say the things you want to hear and they don't go outta their way for you, unless they know for sure that you are theirs.
It's an interesting point, and while I wouldn't be with a girl of your attitude, it goes to show the nice guys out there to quit worrying about what every girls thinks of them. Get out, travel, go places by yourself and with friends. Develop a life. I was a nice guy growing up but did these things in my 20s and became an outgoing guy with an adventurous side, always going interesting places, but I maintained the desire for a relationship. Insecure girls still won't like me, but good ones will.
There you have it, boys - if you want to stand out and seem "aventurous and unknown" in Canada, all you have to do is act like an asshole. People there are so polite, it'll make you a rare exception.
But being an asshole can only get you so far... and maybe that's just my opinion because I have been played so many times I don't even know if a nice guy really does exist.
I'm an asshole to everyone, I make it a hobby of mine to make strangers cry. I've made grown men throw punches at me and women break down emotionally in public.
I believe people should be treated how they act. If you are an idiot you should be treated as such. The problem is most people are idiots and I've spent a life time perfecting the ability to point out people's flaws. I'm not perfect nor are the smartest man in the world, but this isn't about me. This is about the person I'm being an asshole to.
I noticed that woman need validation. They need to please everyone else for some strange reason. I'll make fun of some girl and she'll try to get on my good side. I've even had girl have sex with me to try and get on my good side. I still think poorly of them and most everyone else.
I just laugh at how easy it is to manipulate women.
Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha!! Oh sorry....just realised your not funny. You dick. I'm going to go be all girly and emotional and cry now... boo-friggin-hoo!
You showed me...
As much as I ADORE being treated like shit, I'd have to say that the caring man will win my heart. If you truly do attract women by being an ass hole, than I officially give up on my gender. It baffles me that women enjoy being treated like yesterday's dump that has already been flushed down the toilet.
Uh... ladies?
well those girls deserved whatever they got if they kept coming back.. obviously you must be really hott or just reallin in all the ugly ones.. I think girls want to feel special around the popular jerk, as you get older it will change. . not in a good way .
I don't date ugly chicks.
We want a balance. A guy who is masculine yet caring. We don't want a p*ssy who cries more than we do, and we don't want an asshole who will use us and abuse us (or who won't give a damn about our feelings.)
We want a nice guy...but not one without confidence and masculinity.
See funny thing is with your typical nice guy, confidence and masculinity are two traits that are pretty much non existent. And what is with the feeling talk, do you really think any man in their right mind wants to hear women rant, rave, and cry about their feelings? Nice guys get sucked into that and guys like me plain well just don't care, especially if we aren't dating you.
There isn't JUST nice guys and assholes, there are guys who are inbetween. Just like girls aren't either virgins or whores.
I appreciate your honesty, and I feel horrible for any woman that gets tangled up with you. You know how to avoid all the emotional clingy shit? Tell her from the beginning exactly what you want. If you just want sex, tell her. Believe it or not, a lot of girls are just looking for a good time too. But don't give them BS that would make them believe you wanna date them
Ya emotional crap is easy to avoid, act like your listening, but really you have no idea nor really care what she is saying. I told a girl the other day to shut the hell up cause she was talking to much, she got mad cause I called her a trick. Then she tried to hit me, I then grabbed her pick up and put on my bed, she then called me an asshole, and yet when I kissed her she kissed me back, the more you piss them off the more they like it.
Wow. You really are an asshole. And not the sexy kind either. Good luck with finding a good woman- you'll only have luck with airheaded bimbos (maybe that's a good thing?).
"with your typical nice guy, confidence and masculinity are two traits that are pretty much non existent."
I disagree, and I've got the man to prove it. Nice guy/asshole roles are just excuses to be lazy. lol.
"We want a balance." "We want a nice guy...but not one without confidence and masculinity."
Yeah, a couple of examples come to mind of guys who fit that description. Guys who weren't @$$holes however girls REALLY dug them...
-Cary Grant
-Sean Connery (from the Early 'Bond' movies) [which ironically is the question asker's profile pic]
-And maybe Rudolph Valentino (who was definitly dominant (as seen in "The Shiek" but didn't really come across as an a-hole (watch his film "The Eagle"
It would help if you girls learned how to cry proper tears then. One of my ex's cried only twice the entire time we were together, you know how hard that was for me to comply with? I WATCHED BAMBI FFS. I'm nice, I keep fit and you can carry your own god damn bag, do I pass the test? :D
I'm sorry. But, I have to agree with this guy. I have a college degree, and I am going to graduate school. I am also an asshole. I EVEN TELL WOMEN THAT I AM AN ASSHOLE. When I go out with my friends (girls and guys) and we are at a group table or something, I tell people I am an asshole. I say it at social gatherings. And women still talk to me.
Now, they may think they can change me. Or to them, I may not be such an asshole. But I don't do a lot things and I get women. I don't like to go on dinner dates. I don't go on romantic walks. I don't even like to eat in public. If I go out with them, it is normally for a drink or something, This baffles me. And these women are uneducated women either. Some of these women even have grad degrees.
Therefore, I have come to the conclusion that A LOT not ALL but A LOT of women get what they deserve when they date most guys. They have to know that these guys are jerks before they date them, and they do it anyway.
Finally someone else who gets women thank you my friend. I tell women I am not nice, I am an asshole and they keep coming. Common sense would say don't touch a hot stove you will get burned, but 95% of women do.
Thats a funny quesion...ive never really thought about it but its true that all my boyfriends were jerks or assholes...
i guess you have to find a mixture...maybe try to be an asshole, but nice...
nah, that doesn't make any sense...
be like you always are but when it gets serious be the nice guy...
you are right, the nice guys don't often get too many girlfriends but the jerks always do.
i don't know rly, its the kind of question you can't really answer, I think...
i mean, there are nice guys who get all the girls and there are jerks who never get girls...
i guess some boys have this somehitng girl like...
i dunno...
...sorry...
i ryl dunno...
Right, instead of saying you get all the girls, next time you go out, anywhere, the next attractive smart women you see who you think will be hard for you to get in about, go up to her, make your moves. Watch as you crash and burn.
Like people have constantly told you, you are an asshole who knows where to find the emotionally damaged/poor self esteem types.
Good for you!
You say girls go for the ass holes, but you've utterly failed to share with us how awesome you are at getting girls yourself. Any twat can sit back and let the damaged emotional little girls come crawling to them, hell that's not being a player that's just making do with what you can get.
Your obviously from a bad upbringing though and you've been emotionally damaged so hope you learn to heal man, terrible thing, envy.
Here we go again saying I only go for emotionally damaged women. New flash all women have issues, call a skinny girl fat and see what happens. I would say 97% of women have some issue, weight, height, looks, intelligence, and the list goes on. I don't make due with what I can get I go for the smart, sweet, nice, and pretty girls, who are family oriented, so pretty much the same girls that every guy goes for. I stay away from the crazy ones and the dumb ones they just p*ss me off.
lol is that right I may end with assholes but I'd never get with some-one that sounded as stuck up as you. not even for a one nighter lol you must get some dumb ass, can't think for themself girls. Love to see you when your old and lonley because you can't get a girl. And the nice guys is off having a jolly old time playing bowls with the love of his life and beautiful grandchildren
;)
Basically you are preying on insecure girls who rely on having a very "self-confident" guy, a challenge, to make her feel like a winner. It's easy to do, to get a girl like that, not much of a prize or anything to be proud of. Just takes a little strategy. Do what you do though, the girls who take you probably deserve you and that's cool in my eyes.
Everyone gets the they deserve, you're right. A shame what Cosmo magazine and TV have done to girls that they become so insecure. If you're a guy who only loves sex, I guess you are the winner. I'm a guy who never got the whole random sex thing, but many do, and I suppose they are as stunted as the girls they hook up with.
yeah but one day she won't put up with it. A girl likes an ass hole over a nice guy because the ass hole has confidence and the nice guy is shy and doesn't come off with that confidence. But I can tell you after a while the girl won't put up with being treated like shit and in the end she will marry the nice guy
You don't have to be shy to be nice. A lot of guys are 'nice' but dull and allow themselves to be used as doormats. I'm pretty loud, I can be pretty arrogant, if I think something I'm gonna say it, a lot of people don't get it and will call you an asshole over it, but that's life for ya. People just need to look past the surface and the stereotypes. It can be surprising.
Jamerz, you're a f***ing retard.
Actually, believe it or not, there are girls that find guys like you despicable. They can't stand why you are mean, abusive, disprespectful, and they are usually the ones who are much smarter than other girls, know how to be treated by guys and throw away the ones who aren't nice within minutes. I've had several girlfrineds like that.
When you die lonely you can write on your gravestone "I was a jerk''
Jerks win in the teens period but when a women wants a serious relationship which involves a future & a family and years of priceless love. The "nice" guy wins. And the jerks watch on with the 40year old balding heads and there bright yellow veichiles still considering themselves to be a teen when they clearly are not and the girls they get decrease and decrease in prettyness.
Owned
Well if that were true, why is that I'm the one who isn't a virgin, and has a gf, who isn't a teenager? You see more than likely I will be the one married in a few years, I will be the one with kids if I choose and, you will be the one who will still be single, possibly a virgin, and just can't figure out how to get laid or get a gf.
Owned.
My opinion? You still need some growing up to do. You claim you still get women, but I happen to think they are just naive younger girls who don't know any better. College degree or not, your still a bad egg.
Nice bit on the nice guys though, I actually agree with that rant.
I've dated women from ages 18-36, braniacs to bimbos, and well what can I say, it doesn't matter the age or the education they simply go for the jerks.
First of all, these "Nice" guys are never as nice as they make out! And secondly only desperados and pathetic little girls put up with jerks, so you'll probably never fall in love because you only go for the needy and desperate. Sex is easy to get these days, get over yourself.
Wrong I already have fallen in love before, what else you got?
Did she dump your arse then?
or
Did you fall out of loe when you realised she was a needy desperado?
Just one of those things, where we lived together just kind of got tired of each other and decided to see other people. She wasn't needy or desperate or dumb she's in law school right now
Ya I consider myself a nice guy but I'm not as I appear. Its very true,the young,dumb,desperate,very low confidence girls like to be treated badly because they think that's what they deserve,they wouldn't be comfortable being treated good because they think they don't deserve respect. All girls deserve respect from their other.