It's really short I promise, but I don't know what to do .. I am with my boyfriend from exactly 2 years, we have had a ton of issues, especially from his side (eg. , lack of respect , never really appreciated me) .. but overall he is a nice, kind guy , a bit inexperienced but I know he is a good person .. Anyway a week ago we have a big fight and he claimed that his friends are much happier with their gfs that he is with me .. and that his friend's gfs never do the sh*t that I do to him .. he was angry and felt bad about it later.. he called and apologized , but I told him we have to take a break until he changes.. And a break it was , now we are still on the break but he calls me every other day to check on me .. anyway I am not sure I still love him however .. I did love him to death before and I was always a loyal person to him and always tried to do everything for him .. and now, that he failed so many times with me , I kinda felt out of love .. but I'm not sure however , if I actually did fall out of love!
There is guy on the other hand who flirts me .. in a decent manner , he 2 years older and I have huge respect for him ( my boyfriend is my age and he gets horrible grades in college ) .. anyway I don't care about that .. my problem is that I'm not sure If I actually fell out of love and wanna pursue this other guy .. or I feel like this just because I am in a fight with my boyfriend .. I don't know what to do .. but talking to this guy behind my bf's back is considered cheating and I don't wanna do that .. but in the same time I can't break up with my boyfriend because I'm unsure of my feelings.. PLEASE HELP ME :)
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Look, I'm gna tell you something the fact that your boyfriend is calling you every 2 days to check on you, is giving you this safety net where you feeling your safe whether your with him or not. meaning you true feelings for him are actually hidden. I wouldn't rush into another guy, it might backfire at you eventually. take your time hang out with girls enjoy yourself and if your ex calls you tell him I think its better we don't talk no hard feelings, and also tell him there's a lot of things you need to work on such as this this this wait a few weeks and check what he's up to, if you feel like he's changing you obiously mean a lot to him and are attracted to him as you once were before, and if he still hasn't done anything then your right.0
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