Well with my crush I'm usually the one who initiates the texts, he sometimes does but not as much. But we have hour long (or even longer than that) conversations. Also I don't text him all the time only every so often. However he is the one who usually initiates talking in school and other places. So does he just not like texting? And is this bad that I initiate the texts usually?
Is it bad if the girl is the initiator?
What Guys Said 4
Its not bad
Infact girls who take lead end up happier then those who dont2
You always initiate one thing, and he always initiates another. You both always initiate communication with each other. There is no problem here. Don't do the whole "I'll just let the guy do it all", because then you go from being considered a person to being considered an object.1
No it's not as long as he does other things equally, stop listening to the bullsh*t society tells you and do what you want.0
why would it be?0
What Girls Said 4
This is a serious question: Does he have the unlimited texting plan?
you should wait for him to initiate the texts. it's much easier to talk in person, talking when you aren't together shows a much greater effort.0
not at all0
I am in exactly the same situation with my best friend/crush! It would definitely be nice if he could start texting me first more1
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