I have a very close female friend, we hang out and we talk on phone everyday for an hour, last week I was at her place and once thing lead to another and we had sex, the day after that she was living on a business trip and I wanted to say goodbye so I went to her place and we had sex again but when we were done she cried and said she doesn't think what we did is right because we are not in a defined relationship, I told her that I would love to be in a relationship with her but she said she is not ready for relationship and she suggested we don't hang out just the two of us cause "unexpected things" may happen but then she changed her mind and said that we can hang out but if anything happens again we should just meet in public places, and she said no matter who initiate it I have to be responsible to stop it, and well if something happens I don't think I will stop it, I love her. what do you think about the whole situation?
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Don't go there, because she's not completely into it and she'll blame YOU. She might end up feeling forced into a relationship because of guilt and you'll be her new whipping boy. Everything that goes wrong, you'll be the cause. Every argument will be your fault. She'll resent you. She probably ends up in a lot of relationships with jerks and she doesn't know how to be with anyone else without putting them through an emotional rollercoaster before pulling the plug. She's not lying to you. She's not ready for a relationship and you're the one that's going to get hurt.0