So,I was fairly good friends with this girl. We'd hang out separate from our collective friends, but not really dating. The last time I spoke to this girl she was suffering from some instability and we had a falling out, I was mad for a while but got over it. I get a call a few weeks after the incident and she explained what caused it and wants to try and hang out again. It's a bad time for me at that time, And I was still a little sore over how things had ended, but I was willing to forgive and say maybe next week. She never calls back and I didn't have her number anymore because I thought we were done as friends. Eventually I write it off as a friend I'll probably never hear from again.
Like 4 maybe 6 (maybe more I don't even remember) years later out of no where she calls me and invites me to hang out. I didn't even know if she was still alive, that's how weird it is! We catch up a little she tells me a bit of what she's been doing, I'm so surprised at the call and the spontaneous invite that I agree to meet. We set a day and time and the call ends.
I'm stunned I'm guessing I did the right things but how weird is that to go from not talking to her for what could have been a decade to hanging out again?
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As a girl I can say that sometimes girls forget what they've done to a guy ( at least some of them). They think guys don't remember it all and that they don't hurt over such things.
I would say- go for it! Just go someplace with a lot to do so you would have something to talk about not just " Hey! How are you. How have you been..." Like an amusement park or something.
However, I would rather recomend for you to not give yourself away fully. Be polite, but not friendly. Keep something to yourself ( you may need to act a little to do this, but that is the best way, at least I think so).
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