Okay, so I met this guy online. He's separated and I'm single. We are exchanging emails and all is well but he doesn't know I still have my "V" card. I'm in my late 20s and about to turn 30 soon and most men that I've told have run for the hills when I tell them my "secret". It's to the point that I just want to get it over with but I don't want to be a bad lay either and explain myself. It sucks because he's like my dream guy: successful, attractive, classy, romantic, sensual...and we're already talking about hooking up and I don't want to blow it with my lack of experience like I did so many other times. I need the best advise ever PLEASE!
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If he's really classy, he'll understand that something like virginity is arbitrary.
If he's really sensual, he'll appreciate that he's the first and only to have touched you this way.
If he's really romantic, he'll enjoy introducing you to sexuality.
Any respectable guy would be okay with this. You just gotta talk about it. I think that's what more people need to do, anyway. How many of them just go at it without talking about it first? It's important conversation to have.1