Within the last few years. I have become very business oriented. The norm became dating nerdy girls; like myself and see how that went. Within the last few years. I had lost the pimples, the glasses, put on muscle, and started my own software development company. After doing so, it has come apparent that the more "Nerdy Girls" that I ask out. The more I seemed to be getting the whole "your too intimidating speech". Growing up, I was the small nerdy kid and some how... magically turned out to look exactly like a more muscular Garret Hedlund (The kid from Tron Legacy). During these years of growing up and running the company. My goal was too never put money or objects higher than anyone else. So, I keep myself grounded, and still act as the down to earth person; I had always been.
Within the last year, not only have I gotten the whole speal on being "too intimidating", but most of the girls I am attracted too. Aren't the most beautiful or gorgeous women in the world. Its the gorgeous girls who want to date, but they just aren't my type and it has come apparent. That I am turning down more gorgeous women, then actually finding a "nerdy girl. As per the one I would rather be with. For me... Always trying to keep a smile, having humility, being humorous, sweet, old style romantic, and honest. Has always been traits and morals that I live by.
So the real question comes down to this. What can a guy like me do? How can I be honest with a girl when she asks me what I do for a living and my hobbies. Without them feeling intimidated and feeling as if they don't belong with me (Nerdy Girls). The last two serious girlfriends would constantly complain on how much they thought I could do better, but yet never even bothered to think that they themselves, may be better. Any input would be amazing, and hopefully an answer to my question might help my finally be able to find a nice, nerdy, and fun loving woman.
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Have you ever watched Rocky?
You're Rocky in this case. And Adrian, (in the movie) thought he was way too good for her, but he pursued her with the same single minded determination that her pursued the world title.
I think it's a movie you'd find inspiration from. Check it out, with a view to the relationship side of things.0