Do guys really think they "own" the relationship or control it? I've seen a few questions on here in which guys ask how to go about making contact with a girl they like but aren't sure if she likes them back and the advice they are given is "it doesn't matter if she likes you or not." Am I understanding this wrong? Last I checked, just because a guy wants a relationship with a girl does not mean it automatically happens...
Also, what's this nonsense about guys thinking other guys are going to steal their girlfriends? If their girlfriend leaves them for another guy, wasn't that the girl's actions?
I'm trying to understand here...do guys really think that girls aren't just as much a part of the relationship as they are? Or are some guys just idiots?
^^Sorry if that seemed biased. I'm quite fed up with hearing (and seeing) guys talk like this.
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As others said, you misunderstood.
They are saying you don't need to magically read her mind and know she wants to go out with you before you ask. That's what the asking is for. She can say yes, or no, and life goes on either way.1