Would it bother u? Yes or no? My boyfriend wants to go to the strip club with his friends. I told him no. We got into a big fight about it. He said he wants to go to hang out w his friends and he wouldn't touch or have any of the girls dance on him. And its the same if I go to the club w my friends. I don't think it is though. Guys at the club aren't practically naked and I go to dance not to pick up other guys. I'm considering breaking up w him because he was wanting to go. He won't Because I said no but now he's all mad. Men? Ladies? What are your thoughts? Would you be mad if your significant other went to one? Would you not care? I want to hear your thoughts and opinions.
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You are asking the wrong question. It's not about he strip club (for him).
Here is the problem: you told him "no". That's not how relationships work. You are not his mom. If you close the door to mutual decisions then a fight will follow. No one likes to be told what to do. That's condescending. You can be against it. And you should tell him. But in a way that leaves space for you to make decisions together instead of him just following commands.
Explain how it makes you feel and why. But have enough respect for your partner to have a word in it.1