Guys feel like this all the time, but do most girls feel this as well? Share a story of the worst time you screwed up. What happened exactly? Do you learn any lessons from it?
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yeah, when I was in high school, I grew fond of this guy who I never thought I would like.
he was in one of my classes and he just randomly came up to me and started talking to me. on a field trip he came and sat next to me on the bus ride there and he kept asking questions about me, which I found kind of odd. he kept trying to be near me. that day, since I have a soft quiet voice, he even got so close to me, like if he was going to hug me and put his ear closer to me when I answered him. I was like wtf?
i didn't like him at the time, mainly because he was kind of unattractive (I know! I was such a bitch! I'm sorry!) but I found it weird that I wasn't able to hold a conversation with people I first met but I was able to talk to him like if I knew him for years. I was comfortable around him. and he was nice, and funny, and a pretty cool guy. we liked a lot of the same bands. we had a lot of things in common actually.
well, this went on for the rest of the year. he would always go out of his way to run into me, acting like it was such a coincidence to run into me when I clearly saw how he through all that trouble to casually run into me.
well, after all that attention I got from him, he finally won me over. and everyone thought he liked me, which is why I thought so as well.
well, I started getting all giggly when he would talk to me once I realized I liked him.
and at the end of the year, after prom (I went alone, he went with a friend), we went to this guy's after party. well, I got so drunk that I blurted out that I liked him. and I was yelling it. and he was like right there. then later I started crying (after he went home) because I was whining that he didn't like me and someone told him.
i must have freaked him out. either that, or he really didn't like me.
idk. I feel like I blew it though. I was so embarrassed. now I just laugh at the whole thing. it is pretty funny though.0