a friend of mine lived in the u.s. for a while (we are Europeans) and she told me things which are totally different in Europe
dating rules like: if the guy pays on a first date then it is official,
you sleep with each other at the 3rd or 5th date (she was at college so this is college life), etc so I think in general in the states people are more about sex in college than the Europeans (she told me thing she did there about which I am sure she wouldn't have done here at college) and I don't think there are any "dating rules" at least in my country and I think men are more gentlemen here...
what do you think about this? any experiences?
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-Guys almost always pay on the first date here. It doesn't make the relationship official. It is just expected.
-You don't have to sleep with each other on the 3rd or 5th date (maybe that's just me lol) You can wait if you want or you can put out one the first date, and a lot of girls don't even need a date for that. That's just something that is up to both of the individuals in that relationship.
-People do seem to be all about sex in college here, though. I think you would be hard pressed to find a girl that hasn't had a dozen partners by the time they left.2