I ended things with my friends with benefits about a month ago, because he was an a**hole pretty much lol I had no contact with him, deleted him off of fb, deleted his number everything and everything was going great I was moving on..then BAM he texts me saying he misses me, nothing else but that. I didn't write back but honestly he didn't try to stop me when I was leaving so why all of a sudden he "misses" me?
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"friends with benefits". Does he "miss" YOU or does he miss SEX? MAYBE, since you've ended things with him, he's taken the time to re-evaluate you and NOW he sees you as more than just a Piece of A$$ with No Strings Attached. MAYBE he is saying to himself, $hit, I SHOULD'VE been BETTER to her because I actually had a GOOD one there.
Or, again, he COULD just be seeing if you may be interested in "hooking up" again. The ONLY way you will have your answer is if you talk to him.
I just don't see any other viable possibility. He either figured out that you're actually more than a warm, wet hole and that he lost somebody great; or he is trying to see if you've actually closed AND locked the gate behind you or if you've left it unlocked just in case he came back to see you.
I hope this helps, but it seems that the only TRUE way you'll know is to simply ask, "Why'd you text me that?" Who knows, you may end up finding that HE isn't a bad guy, too! Seriously, though, other than that I don't see any other way to answer this particular question! Good luck to you and I do hope you get your answer (AND that it's one you want to hear).0
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