My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now. We've talked about the future and we do want to be together. The problem is his best friend. Don't get me wrong, I like all his friends, and I'm not one to want to spend every moment with him. But they spend every day together, from 6am to 6pm, then they go out at night. I stopped asking him to hang out because they always made plans before they got off. It's started to bother me now because I barely get to see him. Now they are talking about getting an apartment together, and opening a company together.
Whenever we are together, it's always great. But I just don't see any room for me anymore. What should I do?
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Try discussing it with him, let him know that you feel like a third wheel. As long as he realizes that you aren't attacking his friendship, but that you just want a little more of his attention, he will probably try to make more time for you. Still, don't expect any drastic changes. If his friends were with him before you met, he'll be less likely to alter his social schedule unless he's good and ready to.
(On a side note, it makes me thing of Han Solo and Chewbacca; how in the world would Princess Leia get any alone time with him? lol)0