Ok...long story short: I went on a short dinner date with a girl last week. We had dinner, got ice cream, and had a good time (at least seems like we did). I paid for everything and fulfilled everything my gender role requires me to. After the dinner date, I asked to do it again and she said yes, she just wasn't sure when.
Snce then, she doesn't initiate text message conversations anymore and when I text her it takes hours for her to reply. On top of that, she doesn't tell me when she gets off work so I can walk her to her car (we work together in separate departments). Basically, I kinda feel like she forgot about me. Some people say I should call her but I don't think so because I think its her turn to show interest (if she is)? I just don't understand why she would say yes to a second hangout. What should I do?
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She doesn't sound to interested into you anymore. She probably was when you went out. She may have been being nice when you thought you were having a good time. I also think it is possible she isn't to sure with herself, she may have enjoyed everything, but isn't to sure if she could like to do it again. That may be a reason she is ignoring you. Don't push things on her too much, let things heal, because she may just need to think something over you don't know about. Since you went out with her last week, don't push it on her so soon, wait about another week or half and ask again. If she keeps doing this, wait longer and if it continues she isn't interested, only being nice and doesn't want to give a straight up no.0