I will want a boyfriend, and then as soon as one comes around that I could be with I realize I'm not ready for anything serious... Does that happen to you too?
Its really starting to annoy me because I have things that I want to work on about myself before I get into anything like that so I should know better by now.
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IMO, you're probably taking it all TOO seriously. A guy that you date right now isn't likely to be the guy you're going to marry (if you even get married), so everything in your life doesn't have to be absolutely perfect before you get a boyfriend. You can go years, even DECADES finding reasons not to be in a relationship, but think about all of those lonely nights and boring days that you'd have when you could have a fun, loving partner to share that time with.
Plus, having relationships now will teach you FAR more about yourself and what's REALLY important in a relationship, making it more likely that you'll make better choices in the future. People with less experience are more likely to choose partners for the wrong reasons when they eventually DO choose one.1
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