I didn't pay full attention when he said this to me, but now I wonder what he meant?

While talking about how I'm dating multiple guys at once, as a joke of course, he asked when he can be one of the guys. I didn't give him a straight answer- I said you have to try and make a plan with the guys. Right away, he said that if they're better than me they most likely deserve you and their spot.

I don't understand this language. Help?


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What Guys Said 1

  • He's probably interested in you but doesn't have the confidence to think he has a shot with you.

    • Would someone who thinks they don't have a shot, move on?

    • Maybe after a while. He might hold on to a hair of a chance but if he ever meets someone he thinks he would have a better shot with he might try to move on.

What Girls Said 1

  • he wants what's best for you and if they are better for you than he is then they deserve you more