Guy no. one and me are friends and like each other, but its taken him a while to act on it. Meanwhile his friend, guy no. 2 basically says in plain English that guy no. one wants to ask me out, in front of guy no. one and me! Now guy no. one has bailed on me and gone extremely quiet and backed off almost to the point of ignoring me totally.
I feel a bit played here and have no idea what to do. He knows I like him as I gave him my number. This guy is not shy. Please help! I have no idea what is going on. This all happened 3-4 weeks ago.
Advice is very appreciated!
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Really? I'd be happy guy #2 broke the ice. After you get this awkward phase over with.
The reason he backed away was because you knew he liked him. It was out in the open. And obviously you didn't really react the way he wanted you to. I bet you got quiet, shy, awkward, you didn't really pursue him. You ran off all embarrassed. Which he interpreted as you werent interested. So now it's awkward central. He thinks his secret is out, and you rejected him. So now you got this awkward friendship going on.
The correct reaction was a big ole smile followed by you making it clear you felt exactly the same way about him. However you reacted, you didn't pull that off.
Solution is you need to contact him. Give him sh*t for not contacting you maybe. Say how you feel. Time for you to make your confession. It should work out fine. In the remote chance guy #2 was lying (and he prob wasnt) then at least you tried.
I think it would be a shame if you let this slip through your fingers. A f***ing shame.0
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