Why is he so mean to me?

I have a guy friend that can be so nice when he is single, but becomes a jerk when he starts dating someone. He makes little digs that are mean-spirited - like about my car (which isn't as good as his), or not having the newest gadgets. When he isn't dating someone, he doesn't make comments like that ... he's usually pretty thoughtful. Why is that?


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  • It might be unconscious behavior, like when he's along he knows he has to be nice to girls but once he has one he relaxes his behavior towards other girls to focus on his new GF. Or he could be using it as a distancing tactic so that no one can confuse his friendship with you as anything else but just friends.


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