So I've been wondering why guys seem to go for the 'hot girls'. My best friend is so beautiful, (I'm going to be a tiny bit graphic, sorry!) she's pale, petite, long dark hair until her waist, beautiful green eyes, and athletic. She's thin, round fit butt, 36c bra. She's also really smart, and talented, she learns high level math, geography, civics and loves astronomy and world history. She's an amazing artist, hip hop dancer, and singer and wants to be a film director. She gotten all these certificates and is so sweet and kind and modest. She's good to animals and kids, is patient and open minded...She's just amazing.
Though she's been through a lot, and because of that she's not really confident and shy.
This other girl in my class is also really attractive, I can't lie. She's tall, thin, tanned. Big butt, brown eyes, brown hair, nice expensive clothes, wears a lot of makeup, straitened dyed hair with extensions, and rich. She's hot, but just so so mean and shallow! I don't understand how all the guys love her and surround her, and don't even notice my friend. I know she wants a guy to ask her out, a nice, good looking guy, but it doesn't happen...
Why do you think that is? She's really an amazing person..So what's up?
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Well, some attractive girls do get overlooked. I dated a model for a while who you'd think was constantly in demand from the guys, but because she too was shy, she was not hit on nearly as much as you might think.
As for your friend, she sounds quite rounded out for an attractive girl. Many, many, hot girls have serious issues. I've dated enough to know that perhaps even a majority are that way. Also, when you talk about the other hot girl in the class, she sounds more outgoing, thus the guys she's with might think they have a chance with her. She probably is stringing these guys along for the attention, or sleeps with the guys she finds most attractive. Either way, looks fade quickly and I doubt she's the type to attract a good guy to be in a LTR with.
You're friend does sound very beautiful, but beauty isn't enough if she is so shy that she is unintentionally putting off a vibe of being unfriendly, unattainable or for lack of a better word, bitchy. Does your friend smile a lot? Does she ever make a point of speaking up in class? Does she initiate conversations with other men outside of class or in social settings? Girls that have her kinds of looks would do well to take charge and not wait for a guy to come to them. Most men are scared to go up to a very beautiful girl. She has more power than she realizes if she initiates.0
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