Apparently there's a rule for no kisses on the 1st date or sex until a certain point in a relationship.
Guys, do y'all actually have a purpose to this madness other then figuring out if a girl is "desperate or easy"?
* Been failing in the dating scene even with great initial chemistry, conversation -- just ends up to him wanting sex even in the most innocent situations w/o innuendos
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I hate women that have those so called rules, I go with the flow. If it feels right, go where the feeling lead you.
I don't race things from the start, time and experience have tough me to take the time to get to know someone a bit before jumping in bed with them. I have learned to listen to the little voice that is inside, if something does not seem right to ask questions.
We all want to connect with someone, and not liking being alone can have you doing crazy things and being with someone you don't really want to be with.
Make friends with yourself, and you will not be afraid of being alone. Yes it can be lonely at times, but being lonely for a time is a lot better than being with someone that uses,hurts or takes advantage of you.
Dating rules are only guide lines, every couple is different. What works for one couple does not mean it will work for another couple.
Bottom line is, get to know yourself and what you need in a relationship and you will be able to figure out very fast who is really interested in you and who is just looking to get in your panties.