True statement? Very rarely I hear of someone get a girl that he pursues/chases hard or at least invests something in. Usually he ends up getting the girl he initially hardly pays attention to or doesn't try that hard with.
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Not true. I think it's an exaggeration of a truth - that if you try too hard, you won't get the girl. So trying less than your maximum amount will increase your odds of success.
But if you try not at all, or hardly at all, you definitely won't get with her. You've got to make some effort. Just be wary of trying too hard.0