So this is the story in short. I have a boyfriend of two years and now I met a guy who was my classmate in school and casually we meet each other in the streets and every time I get butterflies. I haven't told my boyfriend yet but I feel a little bit guilty. I don't know whether to text to this guy or not. I mean it's not gonna get serious but I'm so curious about him.
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Are you so sure it isn't going to get serious? It sounds like you just want a blessing to start emotionally cheating on your boyfriend, then hope it doesn't go anywhere. I can see where this is heading.
Do you love your boyfriend? If so, then don't communicate with this other guy. It is obvious that if you have butterflies that you feel something for him, and there's no way to split affections for two or more people without cheating. Don't do it.
Now, if you no longer love your boyfriend, do the honorable thing and break up with him, or talk with him and see if you can make your relationship better. If there's no saving the relationship, break up and then feel free to chase this former classmate of yours.
There's no middle ground.0