I have been talking to this guy online. He told me his number and said if I felt like talking to call, then I gave him mine and told him to call me if he wanted to talk to. I'm pretty traditional, so I'd rather him call me, especially to see if he's actually interested since I contacted him in the first place on the site.
Am I doing the wrong thing here? He hasn't bothered with calling... I mean, if he doesn't at all that will give me his answer, but still.
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This is really interesting. I've had the opposite situation when like 6 or 7 girls over the years, when I asked for their number, asked me to give them mine instead. Only two of them ever called me. When I shared this with my cousin's wife, who is a sweetheart of a woman and always gives me the straightest scoop, she said she was actually surprised that even those two called, because even if a girl really likes you, normally the vast majority would never make that first call, and moreover, for most girls offering to take the guy's number is simply a tactic to let him down easy with declining to give him the gir's own number. This makes sense for me.
On two occasions girls were the ones to ask for my number first (as opposed to offering to take it in lieu of giving me yours), and on both of those occasions they made a point to put it straight into their phone with my name and right away call me to make sure my phone rang. You girls are bad - if you really like somebody you grab them by the balls :-) Both of those girls were young and unusually much into me.0