I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend where I pretty much stay home all the time to talk to him which I really don't mind doing because I enjoy it. However sometimes I enjoy going out with friend but when I do he gets really moody, angry and upset about it and pretty much stops talking to me for a few days..
This is really upsetting for me because it feels like I can't do anything.. and when it comes to me wanting to go out I feel really guilty and I end up just staying at home. We have had a HUGE fight over it before and said he was really sorry and he will try not to get so upset over it again but I haven't had the chance to test this out..
i have my year 12 formal on Friday which has an after party I really want to go to but I need to tell my boyfriend about it but when I think about it I get this gut wrenching feeling in my stomach. I'm so scared to tell him I'm going out with friends from how he's acted in the past.
Should it be like this? how do I bring it up? what should I do? :(
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He's an insecure child. You need to be the grown-up here. Tell him you have a life, he doesn't get to decide what you do, and if he doesn't like it, he's too immature for you and you'll dump him.
Don't fight with him over it. Don't get into a prolonged discussion. Lay down the law. Tell him exactly how it is, and then move on.
Your boyfriend is supposed to make your life better, not fill your guts with fear.1