should I just ask him straight up if he is still interested in me because I'm tired of waiting... we have been up close and personal then one day he told me he's not feeling well and now only sends me a message a day... then I see this ho on his wall flirting with him on Facebook. I fell for this boy. HARD :( HELP GUYS
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It's so hurtful and frustrating when that kind of thing happens. You fall for him, then, bam he's not there anymore. I've been there.
Asking a guy where things are going NEVER works! When you start talking about the relationship they RUN as fast as they can. Don't focus your attention on him, actually don't give him attention for a while. I know it's hard, but if you're not there, he will probably wonder where you went!
Focus it on yourself and flirting with other guys.
You need to feel good about yourself before you contact him again, and flirtitng with other guys is a big helper. he isn't the only guy in the world. Wait 5 days to contact him, unless he starts it. And don't be heavy or ask about "us." Just flirt like you did in the beginning and let him remember what it felt like in the beginning.
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