So me and this girl have been dating on and off for the past 2 years. Long story short she the thought of making a commitment really freaked her out and recently we both finally blew up over the whole situation with me saying I couldn't deal with it anymore and her saying she couldn't keep doing this to me anymore because she couldn't give me what I wanted, (a girlfriend) because of her commitment issues. Its been a little over a week since I've last talked to her, and its hard being that the longest we've ever gone without speaking to each other was only one day if that. At this point should I wait and see IF she decides to call me, or should I make the initiative, (like always) and contact her...I REALLY miss her, she's been like my best friend.
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In this type of situation, waiting always makes it more complicated.If you really miss her, and care about her as much as I think you do then you will call her asap (like now!). Waiting always makes things worse, so don't waste anymore time and tell her how you really feel. Opening up should make her feel comfortable enough to tell you how she feels. If she feels the same way about you, then you guys need to talk and discuss where to go from there. If you care enough about her to work with her and her commitment issuses, then do so. Judging by where you left off I can say that you put her in a position where she felt pressed into chosing commiting with you or leaving you. It appears to me she chose leaving you since she said she couldn't keep doing this to you anymore because she couldn't give you what I wanted (a girlfriend). Then maybe your relationship would be better as a friendly basis.0