Why not be with someone more on your level instead of someone who is not really the type that you would usually go for?
Why have those "bad times with you than good times with someone else" type of relationships?
Like she could be really nice, innocent someone your parents will approve of or someone that would be more of the right choice for you, but yet you choose to be with someone who is not innocent & is not someone that is classy.
What I'm trying to say is why have a relationship where people look at you & be like she or he could've done better?
& how can you fall in love with someone that is not that compatible to your level? I mean wouldn't it be a turn off if like for example if you make a lot of money & the person that you are with is not doing anything with their life why would you even be interested in a person like that? Shouldn't you won't better?
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To be really honest I am not sure & stuffs but I think here is an example with an answer at the end.
Everything with my first [and last] boyfriend [??] seem really good and stuffs, then incompatibilities started happening that were no issues before.
We talked a lot and he used complete sentences, then he started using small internet words.
I compromised and dealt with it, after all, if I loved him, I would be understanding.
We had a lot of common interests, especially pc games.
Then he faded away completely from anything I remotely liked.
I compromised & tried to be interested
We had common ground and intellectually stimulating conversations.
It faded into 'k' every lipped/signed responded
I compromised, some men like simplicity.
We both worked in the same field and enjoyed our jobs completely.
Then he could not stand his or mine and left his job, completely depending on me.
I supported him.
We used to never argue and just understand each-other.
But then he started moaning and harassing me for being deaf.
Strike - Your out.
We never used to ... stuffs.
In the end I just gave up because he did a 360 from letting me be at his side to pushing me away for no reason I could understand. He never said anything against it when I told him I was leaving and left him my hard earned apartment, [but I did take my ps3, tv, bed, and computer].
I do not know where/why the lacking comparability occurred suddenly but it really did.
I guess the reason I wrote all this out is to just to example that: because the jerk-head has a great mask that they wear until they gets comfortable then the 'veil' fades and all that is left is the true them. Its not just one gender as much as I would wish to curse his gender. It wasn't all men, just him. But...it seems true to me.
He needed more cookies growing up!1