anyways I have had a crush on her for almost 3 years and given that my girlfriend of 7 years and her are friends regardless of the fact that we have been drifting apart I am not sure what to do.
maybe I am crazy or maybe I need to change things up. regardless other than the intimacy part of our relationship everything is good (she has no sex drive), so would I just be throwing away a comfortable thing?
input appreciated. thx