Most Helpful Girl
I think the first thing you need to do is get yourself together. I know your fearful that while doing this you'll lose him, but you can't have a good relationship with someone when you know you're not gonna be able to give your all. If you just talk this over with him, and explain that while you love/like him, you really need to get things sorted out in your life first before you can worry about someone else's too. I'm sure he'll be more than understanding and once you have everything sorted out, most likely you'll be able to drive and seeing each other won't be a problem. I know I'm younger and all, but I hope this helped.
Good luck to the both of you.
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