we been together for 4 long years and even have a child together. I work and make a very well off salary, but he has not had work lately and it is fine with me, he stays home with the baby and we planned that he can attend school or just find work next year, no rush right now. but in the relationship, he knows that I want to be more , I want to at least have a ring on my finger to feel that commitment with a token of our promise of forever. I'm secure with him but I want hi to get a me a ring already. he says he wants to go back to work so that he can feel better about buying me a ring. the issue is, he refuse to buy my ring with my money. but I don't care, I see it as what's mine is yours, what's yours is mine. he keeps refusing but yesterday agreed to do it. I know he loves me but I cannot continue to go out in the world with no ring and nothing to show for. we are living a married type of life basically, just not official yet, but he needs to prove to me. and I'm don't with hearing and knowing. gimme my ring!
am I wrong for that feeling?
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I don't think you're wrong at all. The ring has been a lasting symbol of commitment for a reason. But obviously your man wasn't planning to lose his job and I fully understand him wanting to get his own money to buy a ring with. I think you should give him more time though1