I talked to two girls outside my apartment complex the other night and they were both laughing at a lot of what I said. As a guy that has often had no real success with women this was new territory to me. We had a few alcohol (theirs) and the topic turned to sex and how their roommate is (allegedly) a total slut. They joked that I must be scoring with a lot of different women since we live in Japan.
I've recently been hitting the gym a lot and dressing more sharp since I got a new job. I hugged them both good night and on Facebook the one girl invited me to her part-time work, where I made small talk during closing time then walked her back to where we live. I tried to act sort of macho, detached and cool and ended up tripping over my own foot as I walked away.
I am worried that my inexperience will come through and that women will see that I am still a virgin at age 27 and not a "real man".
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What has having sex got to do with being a "real man"? I never really understood why men panic so much about being virgins, we are all/were once, it's really not that big a deal.
Although I can understand you being a bit embarrassed by the tripping over thing, it sounds like she had a good time, so I really doubt that made any real difference.0