met this guy online I'm 20 and very inexperienced. He's new in town and doesn't live in a legit apartment but rooming in a hotel. Should I met up with him first to establish a friendship and then do things with him. I'm not going to go all the way with him (sex) but I want to explore his body and his mine. I'm tired of waiting for the right guy, I blame a certain book is the blame for for my sudden need to experiment lol
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First off, please put down the Penthouse Letters and step away from the book. None if it is real. I repeat none of it is real.
Second, do not under any circumstances expect that he will look 80% of what he emailed you will.
Third, he is a transient. Meaning, he is living in a hotel. I would definitely want to meet him in a public place with cameras and even go as far as to having GOOD friends meet him.
Fourth, I understand 'budding sexual experience and urges' but let me tell you, there are some REAL WEIRDOS out there.
I would not go to his hotel room until I was comfortable with him and I would make sure that at least one person would know who and where I may have spent my last night.
Do bring protection and I mean more then condoms (yes I know you do not plan on going all the way but hell my mom was not planning on getting pregnant...) pepper spray or a stun gun. Like you may have read, there are some weirdos out there, also some people that just don't give a $hit.
Lommelun seems to think the same thing, the only thing that I do not agree with is the safe word, yeah set it up but if they do not care and want to hurt you, rape you, or worse - then that safe word won't make a difference.