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Well lets see... I used to believe that relationships served no purpose what so ever(after I got my heart broken and wanted to avoid getting my heart broken again) so I avoided relationships completely for a few years, I still wanted sex but I never lied or manipulated girls for it and there's always been a sense of mutual respect with pretty much anyone I slept with.
Either way, there was a girl I met through a mutual friend about 2 years ago, she lived in another country but we met up as she was visiting him and I was hanging out with him aswell... we hit it off and ended up spending about 2 weeks together while she was around, my friend was slightly annoyed because she was visiting him initially but hey.. he understood as we did seem like we where a good match.
After she went home, we stayed in touch and ended up in a long distance relationship, it went on for about a year... I loved it... the distance was hard but every month we'd go see each other, either she'd come to me or I'd go to her... it was great... I loved the girl and I loved the feeling of saying she was my girlfriend... it felt right and honestly I just loved that I had someone to share my life with in another way then as a friend.
Anyway on our one year anniversary I took a surprise trip there, not letting her know I was going to be there, I found out she had been cheating on me with some other guy she worked with, I was mad, pissed off but most of all.. I was sad and felt so betrayed.
I could've gone back to my old routine but I actually liked being in a relationship because I felt great during the relationship, like I was part of something special.
At this point, I just have some fun and keep it casual but if I meet someone I want to date again, I'll just let it happen and hope it turns out better this time =)0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE