For the past two weeks, my boyfriend has been acting really cold and distant and since it was getting increasingly worse, I now haven’t heard ANYTHING from him for 8 days. He is usually incredibly sweet and loving. He has been pulling back from our relationship recently and I know something’s up, but I have no idea what as I can’t get through to him in any way whatsoever and its driving me crazy . .
I think things have been a little intense (we were literally lovebirds on top of the world together). He could want some space, I am just guessing, something else could be wrong. I never once imagined him wanting us to be apart or doing this – it really hurts and I can’t understand it, we had so many plans, things were going amazingly, he was my dream.
I have given him space for 8 days now. I have given up trying to contact him for the past week because I never once got anything back. I feel really bad about this though. I know I should wait for him to contact me, but I feel like I should reach out to him, I just care too much. This is the text I was thinking of sending him:
'Alex, you can always lean on me if you need to, and I will be here for you . . . we support each other, we look out for each other . . the two of us, we’re a team – remember?.
I guess if I’m the problem, then I will make changes for the better of us. . it’s safe to say I’ve been way too demanding and asked too much of you and I’m sorry.
I truly care for you and whatever’s wrong, however big or small it may be – it’s okay, and it will always be okay with me, because I love you and it doesn’t matter as long as you’re okay. xxx '
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R you kidding me?..never send that first line.
"hey dear, I m sorry if I've done anything which makes you upset. I know I've been very demanding and asked too much of you. I think I've never realized that before. I really love you and want you to be happy. I m really worried about u. U've not said anything since last week.
I wish that u'd share if any problem comes between us. And I don't know how much can I do to resolve the issues but I will promise that I'll try with all my heart. Even if you need time you take it but please at least tell me what this is all about. I promise I won't bother you again if you don't wish to talk to me...love you forever."0