Why is it always the most undesirable women that say "I need a real man?"
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actually I know a girl like this
shes not attractive, in the least bit, but she says she needs a real man
see she was raped 4 years ago, and I was the guy she kinda fell back onto, I'm a nice guy, and she thinks I'm a "real man" she has done everything she can from being open to sex for me, to changing her image just to get me to like her, I really dont, we just don't click, we have different life paths, and stuff like that...
i think the reason she says it, is because to her she feels "secure" with a real man, even though she's undesirable to me at least, I dk about a lot of other guys...
i can't really turn her down, but I can't tell her I hate her either, because then that just makes me look like a bad guy, ya know? and I don't want to present that... if you have encountered this, just do the best you can to not lead her on, that's the last thing you want to do, and if it gets to a point where you can't take it anymore, just ignore her, she'll finally just give up1