I trust them and this is only the second time, but still find it disrespectful, I'm annoyed, would you be? What should I say to each of them?
Your boyfriend and your friend hang out without you there, would you be annoyed?
What Guys Said 1
Maybe they hung out because you were busy?0
What Girls Said 1
I definitely would be. Even if I trusted them, I would be highly uncomfortable with it.
For one, you should be the bridge between your boyfriend and your best friend. Not that they can't be friends, but it's really weird and highly suspicious if they become friends because of you and then decide not to include you.
Secondly, I don't know how much I would really trust it. I was once in a kind of three-person friendship with a guy and my best friend. I ended up getting with the guy and after we started going out she told me that she had liked him for a long time and was very jealous that I got with him and she wished it was her instead of me. Your trusted friend might not tell you these things, but they could be inside her heart. I'm not saying that they are, but it's a possibility to consider and you shouldn't turn a blind eye because of your blind trust.0
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