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yeah, tone it down.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
yeah, tone it down.
Yeah you might be scaring him by already talking about marriage and kids and you haven't gone on a date. Maybe not scare him out of town but it would make him reluctant to make the first move.
You don't need to be joking about commitments because commitments aren't meant to be joked about and you don't need to be testing the waters or jumping to the end.
Don't worry about it coming off as too strong, just don't do it for the reason I stated above. :) Also, by doing what you're doing, you're giving him a certain security that he hasn't earnt yet. He hasn't even tried to court you yet. Sorry, old word.
Why give him the security that you're his when technically, you're not? :/ He's getting too much satisfaction and you don't know if he wants that kind of attention either. If you want to see if he's interested in you, tone it down a little and see if he reciprocates, if not, he's not interested, at least not interested enough to do something / take a step into making it work. A guy *will* chase a girl if he really likes her enough to man up, do what is needed, to get her, and make the relationship work.
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