I met a guy who I though was interested, he took my number and we sms'd and instant messaged bit, but I probably stuffed it up by having drunken sex before he ever asked me on a date. We then hooked up every weekend for a while. Now I still see him out but we're not hooking up anymore. I'm pretty sure he's just lost interest, but it's hard to know as he is shy. I want to know where I stand w him, because I don't want him to think I'm chasing him when I jut want to say a friendly hello, but I don't want to make a big deal of it, and it just seems awkward to message him and ask "are we just friends now". Suggestion?
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Just explain everything you just did to him and ask him how he feels about your relationship. It's hard sometimes to put yourself out there like that but getting the answer can clear your mind and be very rewarding no matter the result because it will allow you to move on or know what steps you can now take.0