So three days in a row he's bailed on our plans, on Thursday it was a mistake, on Friday he literally forgot he had plans to meet me, and on Saturday he bailed again to be with his dad on a road trip.
I got really mad at him and said "Sorry is not cutting it anymore you need to start being more reliable."
So he said, "Okay I will."
And since then haven't responded. Apparently my guy friend messaged him telling him I was upset and he had no idea I was mad, and ever since yesterday I haven't texted him nor has he texted me.
Should I text him today and be like "Hey:) missed you yesterday"
I want things to be better again!
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I can see why you were frustrated about being ditched, but you can't blame him entirely.
I don't think your message got across that you were angry because you didn't tell him you were upset outright. Sure, every girl who reads that is going to go "Ohhhhh... He pissed her off!" but it doesn't always register the same for guys. You may have been better off telling him you were frustrated to begin with.
Now, I'm willing to bet, he knows you're angry thanks to your friend and isn't sure what to do next.
You're already in waist deep. Don't throw out so much slack and make it seem like you just can't stand to not have his attention. If you absolutely must text him, send him something along the lines of "Let me know when you have time to hang out with me." Let him make a move, and opefully he'll be more likely to keep his own plans. If not, you're probably dealing with a flake.0