There's this guy I met online and we got to know each other really well. We got taking about the kind of things we're into and it turns out we're quite alike. But since we met physically all we have talked about was sexual acts and our sexual attraction towards each other. Don't get me wrong, I love that we can be intimate without seeing each other, but I need to know if he wants more than just someone to sleep with...
How can I ask him this without things getting awkward? I really like him but need to know if I'm going to think about being in a relationship with this guy.
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The bottom line is: if you have sex before you're in a relationship, MOST guys will no longer see you as "relationship material" and will only consider you a FWB (at most). So, if you want a relationship, you need to wait on sex until you're in one, and even then, wait a little while to make sure.
Of COURSE he wants sex, that's normal and okay, but you need to know if he wants more than that too, and the ONLY way to know is to require the commitment before the sex.1