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well from what I see, in your case, you would have to be friends with a girl first. which is usually the best way to do it because the "good girls" are friends first so that you can get to know them vise versa. then it should be a long lasting relationship. oh yeah and while you're trying to be friends, don't come off as the best friend, be funny spontaneous, down to earth and flirt a little to avoid "friend zone".
That girl that you were talking to was probably nice to begin with, may still be, but she was probably worried about what her friends would think. Both girls and guys do that all the time and you have to learn that there are more people out there waiting for a guy like you, just be more confident and happy overall and girls would admire you :P1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE