So to make this very short and easy to read, here's a bullet point list about this girl:
-She just got out of a 2 year relationship with her ex.
-Doesn't want to "date" people, but "can't help getting attached"
-Said she likes me, misses me, wishes I was there, etc...
-We just met recently but we have already cuddled a couple times for hours and fell asleep together for over an hour.
-She said she cuddles with guys but it doesn't mean she likes them or has feelings for them(but she told me directly that she likes me)
-Me and her have hung out 4 times in the first week of us knowing each other.
-We text all the time. Pretty much all day long.
-We flirt a ton. She said she is a notorious flirt, but she has joked with me about not have clothes on, her butt, bras, panties, etc.
-She sent me 4 or so pics yesterday of her or stuff she is doing. Even one of all her underwear haha.
-But she says how she wants to meet a bunch of people and guys.
-She knows I like her. I've called her cute, sexy. awesome... she's called me sweet, cute, funny, smart...
That's what I can think of for now..there's probably a bunch more though. So my question is: what is going on? She is interested, but with her wanting to meet other guys and not really date, how should I approach this? And no, friends with benefits is not an option. It's not my thing and she's definitely not into it either. She said how she really only wants to kiss people she's dating. What should I do, how should I approach this?
The reason I ask this question is because I actually really care for this girl now :) and I want to do anything I can to give it my all... she's the best thing to happen to me in a while, and I want to be there with her until she is ready for something more. I'd just like to know what others thought about what is going on. I'm going for it no matter what though :)
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she doesn't know what she wants right now
things can be confusing for a person after they get out of a long relationship
and its never good to immediately get into a relationship with someone who just got out of a long relationship... so its best for both of you if you wait
she probably misses the comfort of a relationship, but still wants to have to thrill of being single
tell her how you feel then give her some space, give her some time to think and time to explore her options and figure out what she really wants
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