Ok so I went out with this girl for coffee about 3 weeks ago . I'm not sure if it was even a date , I asked her let's go out for coffee and she agreed . Anyway after about 3-4 days I messaged her saying "I had a good time , let's catch up this weekend"
She replied saying "yeah me too :) , I'm actually going out of town this weekend , but if not let's catch up " .
So the weekend passed and I messaged her next Wednesday saying "Hey how about we check out [some coffee place] this weekend" . She replied saying "Sure , I'm a bit busy on Saturday , but let's try Sunday " . I messaged her on Sunday morning "Hey are you free to catch up" and I didn't get a reply . It's been about a week or so since this happened
here's my question - Should I again message her and try to set something up ? or is she just trying to say NO in a very polite way and should I just forget about her ?
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Well, it's hard..
She might be busy.. But no matter what you are not her 1. priority. But that doesn't mean, that she don't want to go out and so.. Try not to message her something like:
"You seem to be very busy, so I don't want to stress you out. I really want to hang out, and I enjoy your company. Therefore, can't you call me or something when you have time?"
And then wait a bit. If she doesn't call you, be patient and seem like you "don't care" for a while, and then ask her out one last time :-)0